Daddy's Little Girl.

My father dedicated a song to me, "Daddy's Little Girl", by Michael Bublé. Our relationship is nothing but genuine. I felt the need to express my love for my dad, because I feel the relationship between daughters and fathers now a days has lost its value. It saddens me to know that many can care less about their relationships with their parents. By this, I do not necessarily mean just a father. They mean the world to me, and without them, there would simply be less of a reason to carry on with my life. I feel that parents, no matter the situation, have been put on this earth to guide and shield their children. This song illustrates the love between my father and I. I hope those who are lacking a strong relationship with their parents, can find it in their hearts to restore a love that only exist between a parent and a child.

Remember, no one is perfect. Everyone has their faults. However, I do believe that love can conquer all hurt, and erase the past.

"Daddy's Little Girl"

You’re the end of the rainbow, my pot of gold.
You're daddy's little girl, to have and hold.
A precious gem is what you are;
You're mommy's bright and shining star.

You’re the spirit of Christmas, the star on our tree.
You’re the Easter Bunny to Mommy and me.
You’re sugar, you're spice, and you're everything nice
And You’re Daddy’s Little Girl.

You’re a treasure I cherish, all sparkling and bright.
You were touched by Holy and beautiful light;
Like the angels who sing, a heavenly thing;
And you’re Daddy’s Little Girl.

Lesson Learned.

Last night was perhaps the toughest night I have yet to face. With this, I carry embarrassment, and anguish inside of me. Unexpected turns take place in our life, and sometimes it is hard to comprehend. However, unlike many, I have the strength and the faith to cope with this situation. In every obstacle, there is a lesson learned. Personally, I have gained more than I have lost, and with this I have concluded the following:

1. When life seems almost too good to be true, question it. Priorities may be set incorrectly, bringing one to an extreme point in their life.
2. Everything in this life is known, nothing is a secret, or better said, secrets do not last.
3. Respect those who guide you, such as your parents. They are not here for long, and it is a shame to depreciate the daily sacrifices they face to see their baby smile.
4. Take full responsibility for your own actions. You are not a victim of your own crime.
5. Do not be discouraged when life takes a detour. Sometimes it is through trials and tribulations when you learn the most.
6. Take time to appreciate life as it is. Some are more fortunate then others. However, no problem is ever big enough to resolve.
7. Give thanks for the ups and the downs. Others would kill to be in your shoes. When you realize your life may be a little bit better than your neighbors; you will learn to balance your problems, and give priority to that which actually matters.
8. Never give up. Struggles come, and they go. Life has its twist, but it CAN be unraveled.
9. There is an end to all which is unfavorable.
10. There is such a thing as a NEW BEGINNING!

Identity Part II

On September 15, my fellow classmates and I sat in a circle to discuss what we thought identity was. We reflected on different view points and heard each others opinions. Amongst all of us, sat my professor. She emphasized that identity is made up of many different factors. For example, birth, culture, and choices are not the only components that make up our identity. A girl mentioned how birth defects can make who we are. I stopped to think about it, and I realized just how true this was. Many people are born with something others may consider to be out of the norm. "What is normal?", my professor asked. There is no clear answer to this question, though many of us may think otherwise. Normal to one may be the other extreme to those who come from other cultures and are conditioned in other manners. Is it not the appearance, hair, face, complexion, and defects that allow us to remember a person? These among many other things make up a persons identity. I believe identity can not be left for a person to judge. In my case, for example, many have placed me in all the wrong categories and stereotypes due to misleading assumptions. It is up to the individual to mold their identity to who they feel suited to be. Then and only then, will that person know who they are and feel comfortable with exposing themselves. People will always think they can define a person by what meets their eye, but in reality, I believe, identity is personal. It is how one sees themselves and how one can project their personality to others.

Identity.

What is identity? This is perhaps one of the most complex questions I have yet to be asked. It is said, culture, and choice selections shape ones identity. I cannot say I disagree, but I believe many things factor into making up ones identity. First off, there are the mother, and the father genes. Both of these parents' characteristics make the offspring its own person with its proper make up. Appearance has a lot to do with identity. The way one carries themselves, and dresses plays an important role in what is a persons identity. Culture differentiates many from others. If everyone were the same, the purpose of an identity would be lost. Furthermore, an identity can be malleable. According to ones environment, behaviors, experiences, and conditions, an identity can change. Sometimes it is for the better, and other times, the identity becomes lifeless. All in all, identity is made up by a variety of factors. Each one is different, with its own distinctive feature. This is why, I believe all living organisms are so different, even within their own surroundings and amongst there very own kind.

"Friendships"

So many times, I have found myself in the search for a true friend. I bet we all have. How many times have we not been "stabbed in the back" or even betrayed by those we thought were our "closest" friends? I can honestly say it has taken a while to find that true friend. Through time, I have learned friends come and go, it's a life experience. Many times, my friends were present to party and have a good time, but the minute something went wrong; when I saw my world closing in, no one was capable of showing their face, or extending a helping hand. It hurt to see how quick those friends of mine would disappear when the situation was not convenient for them. As I said, it is a lesson to be learned. My mother always told me "beware of those you call friends." I never understood that until one day when I realized I could count my true friends on one hand. It was not until a year ago when I found that true friend, the one who was willing to stick it out with me through the thick and thin. I am thankful for him. He goes by the name of Jeremy Daccarett; it took many obstacles, fights, and much time to find him. Sometimes life seats you at the front of a rollercoaster ride so when it's over, you learn to appreciate the good and do away with those who are not worth being in your life.